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- And don t take a so-so match and try to make him fit.
4. This is a real person with feelings.
a. Be compassionate.
b. Make each date an enjoyable experience for both of you.
c. Let your heart connect with his and see how that makes you feel.
5. On each date, don t ask, Why am I with this man?
a. Ask instead,
- What is here that I don t see?
- How is this man loveable?
- What makes this man a good man to be in a relationship with?
b. If you re certain it s not a match, ask:
- What can I learn tonight?
- How can this help me better refine what I m looking for?
- How can I practice my dating and relating skills?
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6. Age is a number. If you believe you re young for your age why can t he be?
7. Your goal should be to have a nice evening and have fun, not decide if this is
the love of your life.
a. Be excited about meeting a variety of nice men, and stop worrying
about where each date is leading.
- It will lighten your energy, which will make you more attractive
on many levels.
- It will help you stay open to new possibilities.
8. It s not about chemistry, although that s important, it s more about energy.
a. Judge how you feel about this person from your heart, your soul, and
your gut.
b. Remember that you can only tell so much in a first meeting.
c. If there s even a spark, and he is feeling it too, you should definitely try
a 2nd date.
9. Get clear about your goals if you haven t done so already:
a. Dating, 2nd dates, marriage, children, etc.
- My course, How To Recognize The Right Man For You, available
as a bonus with Flirting Made Easy, will help you clearly
define all the things you want in a partner.
- The clearer your vision of your ideal partner, the more likely
you ll get what you want.
Are You Picky?
1. Physical characteristics
a. Has to be 6 feet or taller
b. Has to have a full head of hair
2. Don t want a man with cats
3. Don t want a man who lives more than 5 miles away
Or Selective?
1. You want a man who wants children (or not)
2. You want a man who doesn t have pets because you re allergic
3. You want someone who can see you at least 2 nights per week
4. You want someone who is intelligent and enjoyable
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Remember: If you only want a guy who is 6 ft. tall then don t be surprised or
offended if guys aren t picking you because you don t have big breasts or long,
blonde hair.
Fun Questions To Ask Your Date
Here are some questions that are out of the ordinary and will be more interesting
than "What do you do?" and "Have you seen any good movies lately?" Later on,
after the third date, you can even make it a game by cutting up the questions and
each of you dating turns to draw a question out of a bowl and answering it. Note:
Don t ask a question you aren t willing to answer.
1st Date Questions
" What is one of the scariest things you ve ever done?
" What historical figure would you like to talk to and what would you say?
" What do you think people most admire about you?
" In what ways do you think you re unique?
" What are you really good at?
" What is the most beautiful thing you ever saw?
" What's your favorite way to spend time with friends?
" What kind of artist would you like to be and why?
" How would you like to be more adventurous?
" What is your favorite place in nature and what do you like to do there?
" Describe one of the happiest moments of your life.
2nd Date Questions
" Of what are you most proud?
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" What are your three favorite things to do?
" On what do you most enjoy spending money?
" What three things are you most thankful for?
" What would you like to do for your work if money was not a consideration?
" Describe one of your most embarrassing moments.
" If you had to give away a million dollars, how would you do it?
" In what ways can a friend count on you?
" What is a favorite thing you like to do when you have time to yourself?
" What makes you sad?
" What is one of the bravest things you ve ever done?
" What kind of classes would you like to take?
" What was our favorite toy as a child?
3rd Date Questions
" What is a secret dream of yours?
" What would you want to say on national TV?
" What are you afraid of?
" What physical trait do you like best about yourself?
" What would you do if you had only six months to live?
" What do you like best about the way you look?
" What is a favorite thing you like to do when you have time to yourself?
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" What makes you sad?
" What do you like best about your personality?
" How would you most like to celebrate your birthday?
" What's the craziest thing you ve ever done?
" What's the worst thing that happened to you when you were a child?
" What was the most difficult thing about school?
" In what ways are you disappointed about yourself?
" How would you improve yourself?
" In what ways are you most generous?
My Most Important Advice
Here s what you need to remember. Relax, enjoy yourself, be open to something
that surprises you, be beautiful and gracious in how you are and how you treat
each man you meet, be appreciative, be fun, interesting and interested and allow
him at least one opportunity each time you meet to be your hero.
Remember, it s just a date, not the one event that is going to mark the rest of your
life. It s just a date&
From my heart to yours,
Kara Oh
The Heart Whisperer"!
P.S. I invited you to learn about my other books as well as my Santa Barbara &
Kauai Soul Transformation Retreats:
http://KaraOh.com
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- And don t take a so-so match and try to make him fit.
4. This is a real person with feelings.
a. Be compassionate.
b. Make each date an enjoyable experience for both of you.
c. Let your heart connect with his and see how that makes you feel.
5. On each date, don t ask, Why am I with this man?
a. Ask instead,
- What is here that I don t see?
- How is this man loveable?
- What makes this man a good man to be in a relationship with?
b. If you re certain it s not a match, ask:
- What can I learn tonight?
- How can this help me better refine what I m looking for?
- How can I practice my dating and relating skills?
Dating Made Easy
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6. Age is a number. If you believe you re young for your age why can t he be?
7. Your goal should be to have a nice evening and have fun, not decide if this is
the love of your life.
a. Be excited about meeting a variety of nice men, and stop worrying
about where each date is leading.
- It will lighten your energy, which will make you more attractive
on many levels.
- It will help you stay open to new possibilities.
8. It s not about chemistry, although that s important, it s more about energy.
a. Judge how you feel about this person from your heart, your soul, and
your gut.
b. Remember that you can only tell so much in a first meeting.
c. If there s even a spark, and he is feeling it too, you should definitely try
a 2nd date.
9. Get clear about your goals if you haven t done so already:
a. Dating, 2nd dates, marriage, children, etc.
- My course, How To Recognize The Right Man For You, available
as a bonus with Flirting Made Easy, will help you clearly
define all the things you want in a partner.
- The clearer your vision of your ideal partner, the more likely
you ll get what you want.
Are You Picky?
1. Physical characteristics
a. Has to be 6 feet or taller
b. Has to have a full head of hair
2. Don t want a man with cats
3. Don t want a man who lives more than 5 miles away
Or Selective?
1. You want a man who wants children (or not)
2. You want a man who doesn t have pets because you re allergic
3. You want someone who can see you at least 2 nights per week
4. You want someone who is intelligent and enjoyable
Dating Made Easy
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Remember: If you only want a guy who is 6 ft. tall then don t be surprised or
offended if guys aren t picking you because you don t have big breasts or long,
blonde hair.
Fun Questions To Ask Your Date
Here are some questions that are out of the ordinary and will be more interesting
than "What do you do?" and "Have you seen any good movies lately?" Later on,
after the third date, you can even make it a game by cutting up the questions and
each of you dating turns to draw a question out of a bowl and answering it. Note:
Don t ask a question you aren t willing to answer.
1st Date Questions
" What is one of the scariest things you ve ever done?
" What historical figure would you like to talk to and what would you say?
" What do you think people most admire about you?
" In what ways do you think you re unique?
" What are you really good at?
" What is the most beautiful thing you ever saw?
" What's your favorite way to spend time with friends?
" What kind of artist would you like to be and why?
" How would you like to be more adventurous?
" What is your favorite place in nature and what do you like to do there?
" Describe one of the happiest moments of your life.
2nd Date Questions
" Of what are you most proud?
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" What are your three favorite things to do?
" On what do you most enjoy spending money?
" What three things are you most thankful for?
" What would you like to do for your work if money was not a consideration?
" Describe one of your most embarrassing moments.
" If you had to give away a million dollars, how would you do it?
" In what ways can a friend count on you?
" What is a favorite thing you like to do when you have time to yourself?
" What makes you sad?
" What is one of the bravest things you ve ever done?
" What kind of classes would you like to take?
" What was our favorite toy as a child?
3rd Date Questions
" What is a secret dream of yours?
" What would you want to say on national TV?
" What are you afraid of?
" What physical trait do you like best about yourself?
" What would you do if you had only six months to live?
" What do you like best about the way you look?
" What is a favorite thing you like to do when you have time to yourself?
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" What makes you sad?
" What do you like best about your personality?
" How would you most like to celebrate your birthday?
" What's the craziest thing you ve ever done?
" What's the worst thing that happened to you when you were a child?
" What was the most difficult thing about school?
" In what ways are you disappointed about yourself?
" How would you improve yourself?
" In what ways are you most generous?
My Most Important Advice
Here s what you need to remember. Relax, enjoy yourself, be open to something
that surprises you, be beautiful and gracious in how you are and how you treat
each man you meet, be appreciative, be fun, interesting and interested and allow
him at least one opportunity each time you meet to be your hero.
Remember, it s just a date, not the one event that is going to mark the rest of your
life. It s just a date&
From my heart to yours,
Kara Oh
The Heart Whisperer"!
P.S. I invited you to learn about my other books as well as my Santa Barbara &
Kauai Soul Transformation Retreats:
http://KaraOh.com
Dating Made Easy
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